I almost laugh every time I see a “fat acceptance” post where someone in a double digit size is talking about how much they love their body. Sorry. You’re a fucking liar. No one that large loves their body. You’re just using that “love” as a pathetic excuse to stuff your face.
This is hilarious because I am the biggest I’ve ever been and I ain’t ever loved myself so fucking much.
My clit gets hard when I look in the mirror. I rub my belly and I squeeze my ass and just cry wondering how perfection exists on this plane.
But it does boo, and it’s called “me.”
Why would we lie, when we both know you wouldn’t believe it either way?
When we both know you had your mind made up long before asking if we were happy.
Why would we lie?
Because you think we really want the approval and acceptance of hateful, self loathing trolls like you?
Why do you think your acceptance is that important to us?
I promise you it’s not.
Fuckin’ COSIGNED, Jacqulyn.
I went and looked at their blog in anger, but left kind of sad. I think the issue here is that this girl has some serious worth issues wrapped up in eating and weight, she looks to be one of those pro-ana blogs. So to her, how DARE we eat when we are hungry and until we’re full? How DARE we love our softness, our largeness, when she is a tornado of anxiety and pain and self-loathing and constant disappointment and stomach-twisting hunger?
And I tell you what, OP. For a lot of us, it was hard. A LOT of us are recovering from ED’s like yours. Now I’m not saying we got down to your size and then ballooned to our current state. That’s not how weight WORKS. I mean you are under the VERY wrong impression that many of us have never TRIED to lose weight. Become obsessed with it. Become MASTERFUL in our discipline against hunger. But it didn’t do ANYTHING. A rapid drop of 20lbs, sure. But then a plateau. That’s still a, say, 250lb woman in the hospital hooked to IV’s. That’s still doctors clucking their tongues and saying she destroyed her muscles exercising until she dropped on 200 calories a day, that’s STILL a wrecked metabolism that will slap that 20lbs plus another 20 on just months after recovery begins.
But then we found hope in this community. Other people with stories like ours, self-image issues like ours, BODIES like ours. Slowly as we stop being considered second class we stop FEELING second class, we start ACTING like we are hot shit. And you know what happens when you stop feeling sorry for yourself and start having fun and being you and loving your friends and your friends love you? You FEEL amazing! Your energy comes back. Your daily life becomes easier. You get HEALTHIER. And it has NOTHING to do with how fat or thin you are.
You’re welcome any time. We’ve got lots of skinny people in here, too. The bottom line is love yourself and others will, too.
Man I looked at her blog as well and got really sad. I feel bad for her honestly. Chewing and spitting out food and feeling so miserable about herself has got to be majorly depressing. I honestly hope she gets better and that she doesn’t receive a lot of obnoxious hate because that completely defeats the purpose.
Her message is very aggressive and rude, but i agree, she clearly has a lot of issues, and though lashing out was a horrible thing to do, it makes me sad to see just how personal it really was. She thinks fat people can’t be happy because she isn’t happy. Thinspo blogs are terrifying
Also garcia is a BABE